The easiest or most effortless thing we do is to have an opinion about somebody or something. We live in a time where the decisions we take and activities we do are decided based on the opinions of others. Be it the food, movie, clothing, vacation, etc., everything is accumulated depending on the ratings/reviews of outside people. There are times where you buy less rated things but the product/s works and outperforms the best rated ones.
It doesn't hurt to have opinions in general but there is a growing trend where a person or a group of people try to force an opinion of one's own on somebody else. This is something which has to change if one has to progress consciously in a society. It is best when you are able to influence or inspire someone through your actions rather than enforce an opinion without action. You can give an advice to somebody, taking it or leaving it out is left to them.
When it comes to your career or future life, the important decisions cannot be forced upon you but a guidance in the form of sharing an opinion may not hurt anyone. There are times in a person's life where he/she decides to act upon somebody else's sole opinion and may succeed as well. This cannot happen all the time and can impact you negatively too. You have to take control of the decisions you make and build on the ones that don't work!
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